No One Wants to be your Second Choice for High School Prom Date

Imagine you're back in high school, planning to ask out a fellow classmate to the prom. You approach your potential date, "Would you be interested in going with me to the dance? You're my second or third choice." 

Not very compelling...The same is true for letters of intent: I've had several applicants ask me if it's okay to say that an institution is their "second or third choice" or "one of my top" picks. 

That does not sound very flattering. Instead you can say something like "I would be thrilled to be at your institution," or " I’m confident I can make a positive contribution." In other words, you don't need to lie (which I never recommend); but you don't have to shoot yourself in the foot either.

I do edit letters of intent and have been busy with them this season. Let me know if you need assistance.

After Your Residency or Medical School Interview: Is there Value in a Second Look?

After interviews - if permitted by the institution - there are several ways you can communicate with a medical school or residency. My favorites are brief thank you notes and well-written letters of interest.

But what about the "second look?" I've had many mentees ask me if re-visiting a school or training program after the interview day is valuable. Unfortunately, there may not be a definitive answer to this question because how a second look is perceived varies by institution.

The cons of the second look are cost and time. And perhaps even worse, there is the risk that you are imposing on the school or program. You don't want your request for a second look to work against your candidacy. On the other hand, the pros of a second look are a demonstration of interest and enthusiasm that many schools and programs are seeking.

If you are a pre-med and are wait listed at a medical school, I would generally recommend a second look if you can swing it. After all, you have every right to visit the institution you may be attending. If you go for a second look in this scenario, make sure to do a formal visit: Let the admissions office or Dean's office know you would like to spend the day and ask if you might have an opportunity to meet with students and even an admissions officer to support your candidacy.

If you are a residency applicant, it's hard to say if a second look will help or not. A residency director friend of mine says that a visit from someone who travels from far away might improve a candidate's standing by a few slots on the rank list at her program. That sounds like a tepid endorsement at best... If you are considering a second-visit, make sure to speak to the program coordinator. S/he might advise you against it or, on the contrary, let you know it's appreciated by the residency director.

As we all know, the residency and medical school interview scene is already stressful and expensive, so unless you are a wait listed pre-med - with all other things being equal - I generally would not push yourself hard to do that second look.

Pre-Med? Avoid a Big Mistake

Several years ago I was hired by a re-applicant who wanted to better understand why she did not get into medical school the prior year. She had a 3.9 GPA and a 40 on her MCAT (100% percentile). Yet, she had been rejected from all medical schools.

I looked through her materials and discovered the problem. The applicant had no clinical work at all. She had never been in the room with a patient. Many of you know that I like the saying, "No one wants to hire a chef who hasn't been in the kitchen." She had fallen prey to exactly that adage.

We talked, and I advised her regarding options she had for obtaining clinical experience. Fast forward a year: The client completed a robust clinical activity and was readily accepted to medical school (and felt more confident about her career choice).

If you are a pre-med, note that robust clinical experience is critical. Working as an EMT, in a good clinical care extender program, formally as a scribe (where you can also make some money), or in a low-income clinic are just some ideas for obtaining excellent clinical exposure. (Although you might think free clinics would be thrilled to have a pre-med volunteer, many understandably require one-year commitments.) Shadowing is a mixed bag: Medical schools don't know whether you're second-assisting in the operating room or just standing in a corner being ignored. If you choose to shadow, make sure you highlight any true clinical experiences and skills gained in your written materials. Other popular options for clinical experience include international work (although the activity is usually short-lived, which makes it less robust) and working as a volunteer in a hospital (although it might be more clerical than clinical, depending on the position. Do your research before accepting a "clinical" job). I've also had advisees who became certified, practicing phlebotomists and others who worked in veterinarians' offices to obtain procedural skills.

More important than getting into medical school (gasp), getting robust clinical experience will help you ensure you've made the right career choice. Simultaneously, you'll demonstrate to admissions officers that you can handle the heat.

Residency Applicants, Thinking about How to Create your Rank Order List? Check out this easy advice.

For those of you who are starting to think about your Match rank order list, please make sure you follow this (simple) strategy: Rank your first choice first, your second second, etc. The Match algorithm is mathematically quite complicated, but because the process always begins with an attempt to match an applicant to the program most preferred on the applicant's rank list, you do not want to try to "game" the system.

For example, I've had applicants tell me that they plan to rank a less preferred institution higher because that program has more residency slots. That's a no-no. The applicant will actually be harming him/herself with that strategy.

Here's a video the NRMP created this year to better explain the Match algorithm. Here's also a less-than-one-minute Guru on the Go© video "NRMP Ranking to Avoid a Spanking" to emphasize your optimal ranking strategy.

A Novel Approach: Reading throughout your Rotations

I have a thoughtful advisee who told me about an interesting plan she made for herself: As she rotated through different specialties during medical school, she read a book appropriate to each field. For internal medicine, she read "Being Mortal," by Atul Gawande. For neruology, she read the classic "The Man who Mistook his Wife for a Hat," by Oliver Sacks. For surgery, she read "When Breath Becomes Air," a beautiful book by Paul Kalanithi. The list goes on.

I was impressed by this contemplative approach to third and fourth year. So many of us are understandably focused on Shelf Exams and letters of recommendation that we don't give ourselves a chance to comprehensively reflect on our subject matter and patients' experiences.

If you have a moment, please check out a few book recommendations I have for those in the medical field. Perhaps my advisee's stellar plan can be one that other medical students adopt.