Monday, October 10, 2022

How to Turn Bad Advice on its Head

As you get to know different institutions during this interview season, I encourage you to take the opportunity to reflect and consider what will make you happy in the upcoming years.

When I was a medical student applying for emergency medicine residency programs, a well-meaning dean gave me some bad advice: After interviewing at several institutions, I was determining the order of my rank list and was particularly concerned about one program that had an excellent reputation but was in a city I didn’t like. The dean told me, “You’ll be so busy during residency it won’t matter where you live.” Luckily, the advice rubbed me the wrong way, and I wholeheartedly disregarded it. Where you live for your medical training - medical school, residency, or fellowship - is as important as the quality of your training program! The reasons are several-fold:
  1. Medical training is time-consuming, and you want to be in a city you can enjoy fully when you have a few moments to blow off steam.
  2. Medical training is stressful, and you want to be in a city where you have social support.
  3. Medical training is not completed in a vacuum. Your personal life continues. If you’re single you may meet someone and end up staying in the city where you have trained for the rest of your life. If you’re in a long-term relationship you may decide to have children or may already have them. Down the road you may not want to relocate your family.
Not everyone gets the opportunity to go to medical school or train in residency and fellowship programs in a city s/he likes. But you can make choices that will increase your chances. Consider these options - and your happiness - as you make professional decisions this interview season and in the coming year.